If you have concerns about your autism or ADHD assessment, always go back to the assessors first. They will want to hear what happened and why you feel something went wrong.
(I remember when a mother, who sat outside the assessment room, told me she could hear the answers her child gave to the assessors. She sat there alone, with tears running down her face. It was heartbreaking — and a big learning point for me.)
Start by Preparing Your Thoughts
- Write down your concerns and specific issues you want to raise.
- Gather any documents, reports, emails, or notes related to the assessment.
Talking to Your GP
- Request a Meeting: Ask for a face-to-face or phone consultation.
- Explain Your Concerns: Be clear and specific about what went wrong (e.g., delays, miscommunication, lack of accessibility).
- Ask Questions: Find out what your options are, such as a second opinion or reassessment.
- Seek Support: Ask about further support or referrals for therapy, coaching, or care planning.
Talking to Your Employer
- Request a Private Meeting: Choose a time where you can talk without interruptions.
- Be Honest: Share how the assessment process has affected your wellbeing or ability to work.
- Discuss Adjustments: If needed, talk about changes in your role, hours, environment, or communication style.
- Follow Up in Writing: Send a summary email after your meeting to keep a record and confirm any actions.
Talking to Your School
- Book a Meeting with a Key Contact: This might be a teacher, counsellor, or SENCO (Special Educational Needs Coordinator).
- Share Your Experience: Explain the assessment issues and how they are impacting your ability to learn or participate.
- Ask for Support: Discuss accommodations or changes that might help, such as extra time, quiet spaces, or emotional support.
- Keep Communication Open: Make a plan to review support regularly and follow up as needed.
General Tips
- Stay Calm and Focused: Even if emotions are high, staying solution-focused can help you feel more empowered.
- Be Persistent: If you’re not getting answers, don’t be afraid to chase things up or escalate the issue.
- Know Your Rights: You have the right to be treated fairly and to receive accessible, appropriate assessments and support.
Additional Support Resources
- Consider reaching out to advocacy groups or support networks for autism or ADHD for additional guidance and support.
- Look into local resources that provide information on navigating healthcare and education systems effectively.