Supporting a child on an autism assessment waiting list can be challenging, but there are several proactive steps you can take to help your child during this period:
1. Engage with the School
- Teamwork: Ensure the school is aware of your child’s needs. They can start providing support even before a formal diagnosis.
- Share Information: Provide the school with insights about your child’s strengths, interests, and triggers. This helps them tailor their approach to your child’s unique needs.
- Building social relationships (in a way that works for your child): Ask about interest related clubs or opportunities for spending time with peers they feel comfortable with. The playground may be overwhelming for them or their opportunity for ‘reset’ time.
2. Develop Communication Strategies
- Visual Supports: Use visual aids like pictures, symbols or written to help your child communicate. This can reduce frustration, overwhelm, support with developing verbal communication and improve understanding.
- Model Communication: Demonstrate how to use these supports age appropriately. For example, if your child wants juice, show them the picture of juice and say the word. If your child is older, model ‘scripts’ of how to ask for something or to express their feelings.
3. Create a Structured Environment
- Consistency: Maintain consistent routines to help your child feel secure.
- Visual Timers (not for all children): Use tools like sand timers or visual clocks to help your child understand the passage of time and reduce anxiety.
- Provide choices or introduce structure during unstructured times, for example during playdates.
4. Address Anxiety and Escalation
- Identify Triggers: Recognise signs of anxiety or escalation and share these with the school. Explain how to spot and respond effectively.
- Calming Techniques: Implement calming strategies that work for your child, such as deep breathing, engaging in their interests or a quiet space.
5. Seek Early Intervention
- Professional Support: Access early intervention services if available. These can provide valuable support even before a diagnosis.
- Mental Health Plan: Consult your GP about a mental health care plan to access subsidized sessions with psychologists or other professionals.
6. Connect with the Community
- Support Groups: Join local or online support groups for parents of children with autism. Sharing experiences and advice can be very helpful.
- Carer Support: Register for carer support services to access additional resources and assistance.
7. Positive Reinforcement
- Celebrate Achievements: Regularly acknowledge and celebrate your child’s successes, no matter how small. This boosts their confidence and motivation and helps them to notice when and what they are doing well!
We wish you all the very best for the future and if you have any questions or queries, please do not hesitate to contact us.